Everyone's different attitude makes them unique. Thus, different locks have different keys.
Uniqueness is doing
everything in your own way rather thinking what others will think. Following
anything blindly is just dumbness and finding the right theory behind that
think is uniqueness. It is not all about doing different things, it is about
doing things differently. Be proud of your uniqueness.
There is an infinite
number of ways to make you better but it doesn't mean that all the ways are
best suited for you. "Even the smartest of the people make stupidest of
the blunders".
Competition and Expectations
both plays the main role in destroying your uniqueness if you don't take them
in the right way as you then will start copying others.
"Different problems have different solutions that may act differently for different people".
COMPETITION
"The best
competitor of you is you". Become the best for yourself, not for others.
Competition destroys confidence, humanity, career, friendship, self-worth and
of course your quality of being unique. Everything is not applicable to
everyone. You may have a different solution for your problem and others may
have it differently. But when the competitive spirit arises it becomes more of
proving others wrong and less of yourself right.
"Rivalry draws out the best in items and the most exceedingly awful in individuals".
Healthy competition is
not a do it die situation but it improves yourself and it doesn't make you
depressed when you lose it. On the other hand, unhealthy competition, as I have
previously said, it becomes more of proving others wrong other than proving
yourself right. You can't remain in an isolated form where nothing matters but
you should also not remain in too much of competition that you actually loses
yourself for gaining anything you need.
"Believing your individual uniqueness moves you to expose yourself"
EXPECTATIONS
"Expectations always hurt".
Is it actually right
saying that?
It moved around in two
situations. Firstly, expecting someone has proved beneficial for that person
whom you are expecting something as due to your expectations he may work harder
and fulfill your expectations. This is when he will get happiness and
satisfaction. The second case arises when he is not able to fulfill someone's
expectation in spite of hard work and dedication. Well, that situation is even
worse as it may lead to drowning the person so much from inside that he may do
anything.
Well it is rightly
said that :
" Uniqueness never comes from expectations".
This is said because
until you expect the same always you will never find uniqueness in it. Being
unique is actually what we call unexpected. Do whatever you want but not do
what you are often expected.
Follow healthily
competition to be more knowledgeable and expects someone according to his
ability to do that. Everyone is best in something and trusting he makes him
more dedicated towards his goal. Don't underestimate anyone on the basis of
their ability to do a task, maybe he is doing better than you.